Your questions make a lot of assumptions about what people do that are not necessarily true, and beyond that, you assume that their choices have the same meaning to them as they do to you.

The questions that you ask, in addition to being leading and prejudicial, have an inquisitorial tone, which causes one to smilingly reflect that you haven't really gotten over that Catholic upbringing.

Beyond that, your questions have very little to do with either the way I've brought up my kids, or what any of us believe.