Of course, it can happen that we change the way we see people as things happen to us and time passes. And having people die on us can be one of the things that happen to us that changes us. It's often that way with relations - it's not all hypocracy what happens at funerals.
Here's a link to a song I wrote about my father. One of a number.
I've just noticed this thread's title - "Breeze". Is this an alternative for BS? If so, it could be an improvement.