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Thread #150373   Message #3504540
Posted By: GUEST,hg
16-Apr-13 - 08:54 PM
Thread Name: BS: Caring for Grandma
Subject: RE: BS: Caring for Grandma
Mom liked Pandora stations of her favorite music. a roku box hooked to the Tv would allow it. to play from the TV. Supplemental oxygen sounds important. A window to look out of or a bed in the family room. The dog on her bed. She is probably ready for a hospice evaluation, Joe. They are better judges of time left. Hospice help would ease your burden, as well.

Dad talks about wanting to die every day now. We. are going to get a hoveround soon as walking is almost impossible for him now. Life at this stage is so miserable for really infirm people. I try to breath in all dad's misery and breath out light and peace. He would take matters into his own hands if he could.

I've been care giving for over six years now so I truly understand your feelings. Take care, buddy. I haven't even been more than sixty miles from home for years . A choice I made freely

love, hg