My Dear Wendy,
                        Please don't apologise for ranting. You have a deep-seated need to rant as much as you need. I'm with Spaw, I don't know how you cope with the dementia that at one & the same time, 'takes your Mother from you' & yet physically, she remains with you. I can only guess at your frustration & your inner turmoil. I am moved to read that you choose to share your distress here. For sure, you have chosen wisely.'The Rainbow' is well provisioned for the heart & soul as well as the mind & body.
         Kat & Spaw, rest easy in your bunks, there are enough of us to trim the sails, check the course & keep an eye on the glass. Rest easy & recover. Healing takes time, take all the time you need.
         Janie, you're right, we're on the move again.....
                                                                               With Love,
                                                                                              Nigel & Ann.
                                                                                              xxxxxxxxxx