well i suppose they could send out postcards instead...and if you were convinced you were speaking the truth out of desire to protect children, you would tell your children the truth and expose them to it to protect other children, I would imagine. The stench coming from the Catholic church is because the truth did not come out and fear of scandal trumped protection of children. Personal gain? Does not make sense to me in this case but i could be wrong...the question is always going to be do you do nothing or do you do something....either way you could call it wrong.