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Thread #150697   Message #3514699
Posted By: GUEST,Guest - Follow Your Own Rules
13-May-13 - 03:44 PM
Thread Name: Bob Brozman legal issues
Subject: RE: Bob Brozman legal issues (NOT obit)
Stilly River Sage - You are a Moderator here, correct? Why is that you continue to encourage the flamers around here? You posted some of the rules before, but curiously omitted this:

Dealing With Flamers and Trolls:
I have to say that I have become a bit cynical about people who make a big show of leaving the Mudcat because of flamers - many of these people might warrant the title of "trolls." The people who attract flamers are often quite obnoxious themselves, especially those who leave with a long farewell message that usually generates a hundred "don't go" responses or more. I am concerned about those who quietly slip away, or those who never even start to participate because of the nastiness. Those who make a show of making martyrs of themselves are every bit as bad as the flamers, I think. They prey on the sympathy of good people.

I've said it before, and I'm sure I'll say it many times more: the best way to deal with both flamers and trolls is to ignore them. Give them silence, and they'll go away. They feed on attention - don't give it to them.
There is another problem that occasionally arises here - people who are threatening in their behavior. It is of utmost importance that you do not try to deal with these people. If you ignore them totally and inform Joe Offer or Big Mick about them quietly with a personal message or e-mail, we can quietly make them disappear (to an extent).