Spaw... that alone helps to heal.

I waited for updates on her thread without refreshing for (too) long periods of time simply because I didn't want to pry, to be pushy, to upset her in any way. I knew by her abscence that something wasn't quite right. Even tho I refreshed and ask "How ya doin?" or "It's been X days? Whhassup?" or "Update?" or whatever on several or more occasions, I wish I had more often just said "Hey darlin. Hope yer doin okay."

There. Said it out loud. It's been buggin me since I heard the news.