The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #151677 Message #3550533
Posted By: Larry The Radio Guy
18-Aug-13 - 07:00 PM
Thread Name: BS: Reinforcing respectful 'boundaries'
Subject: RE: BS: Reinforcing respectful 'boundaries'
My understanding of any 'risk factor' is that it is one of many. I think that promiscuity is a major risk factor. So is a low sense of self-worth. And my guess is that the acceptance of the reality of a person's sexual orientation and helping them do what they need to do to increase their own self-acceptance---whether that be through pride parades, legalization of gay marriage, etc. is going to significantly reduce that risk factor.
And the reality is, GFS, that the attempt to change a person's orientation has only reinforced that one's sexual orientation 'should' be changed. There are no 'shoulds'. Any more than I think that your opinion 'should' be changed. Personally I'd like it to be changed. But that's my thing. It is what it is.
As well, I think that most people have accepted that trying to change an orientation that a person has had since birth (or even before) is an exercise in futility......for most.
Sorry if this has already beeen posted, but you may want to take a look at it.
Michael Busse (co-founder of Exodus), Darlene Bogle (a former Exodus ministries leader), and Jeremy Marks (former Exodus International and head of Courage UK) issue a public and formal apology for their work as ex-gay leaders and the harm they caused to those they tried to help.
http://youtu.be/aDiYeJ_bsQo