Gillymor, your explanation is fine. I only used your quote as an example of the many so please don't thing I was picking on you. However, you just said "how many 14 year old girls think it would be way cool to be a 'ho in some rappers' " I don't think that will happen. I was first hooked on Jimi Hendrix, followed by Alice Cooper and Ozzy Osbourne. I was 14 when I got into Rock Music. Neither me nor any of my friends ever tried to shag our guitars, hang ourselves or bite the heads off bats. Surely you need to credit the current 14 years olds with as much sense as I had and, hopefuly, you did?

Cheers

DtG