Guest at 09:43, I realise everyone is entitled to free speech and their own opinions, but you could at least have the basic decency and courage to identify yourself.
Diane's friends were taking a little comfort from recalling her gentler side. What would it have cost you to let it lie?
Re cats, if the police knew in May that she'd died, they would have dealt with it in May. Someone must have had to go into the flat to carry out the necessary procedures, and hungry kitties would have been meowing and leaping at the door. Impossible to miss. I can't believe they were locked back inside unattended afterwards. The RSPCA or somebody would have brought them out and seen them into shelter. Maybe a neighbour even took them in.
Diane did certainly love those cats. They were her constant companions, while it took someone living in Iceland to ask that enquiries be made, when he got no response to constant attempts at communication with her. Think about that.
Please, no more fighting. PLEASE. Points have been raised, points have been answered. Now let it lie, and let Diane lie.
I want to be able to think of this thread as a gathering of friends. Feeling bad enough already.