The two of you, and other posters, cannot hide their very own absolutely serious emotional problems

Ahhhh - Got it now. Someone who has read a psychology book and thinks they have deep personal insights into others psyches by reading a few lines posted on internet forums.

Don't worry, Grishka. You are not the first. You will not be the last. You may be the daftest though :-)

What is the Russian connection, BTW - You probably missed the earlier thread but I am part Russian myself

Cheers

DtG