Tom isn't safe alone, Linn. It is time to sort out alternative care that leaves you free to come and go. The emergency button is a good step but what happens if he tries to get some coffee and burns himself or starts a fire?
Falls in the night; falls during the day. He wanders and can't see. He is an accident waiting to happen.
Sorry to be so blunt.
It is time to speak with his doctors about the next step.
If you or anyone else wants to ream me out for this, I understand.
I am genuinely worried about Tom.
Mary