I am glad you were able to get out but sorry you came home to a crisis. The crises seem to be coming far too often. (Well, I suppose one crisis qualifies as "far too often.") I want Tom to be safe. I want you to be able to get the down-time you want and need. I want to be able to give you more real hugs but also to do something useful. You've got a lot to sort out to make both your lives calmer. Sending love.