When people ask me (IRL) if they can 'friend' me, I usually say something like "Sure. But I post a lot of crap." Then it's up to them. You can adjust how much information you get from people, but you have to learn how to do it. If you just want to play games, get a Pogo account. It's $35 a year (I think) and they have chat rooms and personal messaging. You guys could waste a shitload more time there... which is probably NOT what SINSULL is looking for.