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Thread #28685 Message #357981
Posted By: GUEST,Guest
15-Dec-00 - 05:57 PM
Thread Name: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear
Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear
I have been in this situation for the past 8 years. It is not pleasant. Tried talking and it turned into the "I'm not getting enough" conversation. This gets very waring. So then we tried the counselling and non sensate touching,this should take about 6 weeks. Took us over 6 months because he wouldn't make the effort. Even did the wiring up the "bit" to see if it was working,aparently it was but not for me. I began to think there was something wrong with me. Its the complete lack of affection that is soul destroying. Going solo is fine but its not the same as making love with someone you care about. We are now trying to work out the best way to split up and keep it as amicable as possible.