As for what Jeri said, I am pretty sure I know at least one of the reasons and, no, only I (and Jeri?) and the GUEST I offended in the OP without taking into account this GUEST know. I have lost a friend that I like, respect and admire. I fucked up on the respect part because I didn't think about GUEST's needs. A big mouth deserves a slap at least once in a while. Maybe Jeri could send me a bunch in advance to take on a regular basis so I don't screw up as often.

Once again, I am truly sorry for my careless post and I wish all the way to hell and back I had never started this thread. If any mods want to crash and burn it, I have matches.