Wendy- I would also be livid, but there will be time for anger later. Right now you need to be calm. Any chance your brother knows about your posts here? if so, watch what you post.

Yes, I would contact my solicitor in your place, but I wouldn't allow anyone at the house to discuss the issue where they will be overheard by bugs, nor would I make that call from home. Careful and calm is what's called for.

The ducks egg blue curtains sound lovely. You are taking the best loving care of your mother, so rest easy tonight.

Hugs,

Maeve