Welcome, Tinker. I echo the many post regarding Ben. Cars can be fixed or replaced...options for us Humans tend to be a bit more complicated!

Wendy, I am horrified by your discovery. As has already been said, pay careful attention to your postings. My gut reaction is seek legal advice. Unspeakable that you have been subjected to this gross intrusion.I hope it's ok to say, on behalf of everyone, that you have the love & emotional protection of the whole Crew,
                                                             With Love,
                                                                            Nigel & Ann
                                                                            xxxxxxxxxx