Hiya,

Stress incontinence =/= caused by stress?? I'm a slightly leaky folkie, & it gets worse when stressed / when I laugh too hard, & a couple of times I sneezed so hard I s*** myself.
Pratchett's "magical leakage" comes to mind........☻
Despite yrs of hating dresses I switched to wearing them (*I love* the old-fashioned sort) due to weight loss & realising how much easier they are when transferring.

I think men have it easier – they find shared interests so they *don't want/need* to bitch @ each other. There's a ton more women here than men, & that's all they do. I hate it. Obsessiveness tends to be a male thing I think.

I used to think I'd got gender issues cos I thought that way (had the odd weird crush, v. short hair, etc., & the realisation I hadn't got said issues & was in fact quite normal, was a huge relief (excuse the pun). I'm only 4ft 10 so I'd look daft.☻