My Dear Wendy, I've read & re-read Janie's words, so redolent with knowledge, wisdom & experience. I hope you find them comforting, thought-provoking, enabling. As Janie also said: "Wendy, don't ever call yourself a coward". I can't reinforce that strongly enough.

Thanks Gnu...& Pete, yes, my own work. Wishing you a speedy recovery. As you often hear folk in the UK say: "There's a lot of it about!"
                                                                  With Love,
                                                                                 Nigel.
                                                                                 xxxx