I'm a 'lark' - awake, up and running by 6am. Always have been. On waking, I zoom of to get a nice strong cuppa, then pray, meditate and reflect for a bit. Husband sleeps quite late, but it's never been a problem for either of us.
Guest, I'm so sorry you're going through this sad and difficult time after such a long marriage. My heart goes out to you. Please try and realise that you will get through it and life will be sunny again eventually. During the long nights, others are awake too, and many will have prayers and kind thoughts for you. Best wishes, Eliza.