I saw Facebook messages this evening from two wonderful young women, each proclaiming their love for the young men they're with. I clicked the "like" button for them, but I'm not at all impressed by the men they've fallen for. These are good, intelligent, loving women - and I'm afraid they are going to be abused, at least mentally, by the men they've chosen. Both of these women have had children by men who abandoned them and the children, and both have dated men who have criminal records.
These two women are wonderful, but the guys they pick are horrible. Why does this happen?
I hate to say anything negative to them to destroy the joy they have when their relationships are good, but my heart just aches for them.
Why? why? Why?

-Joe-