leeneia, I agree (more so than even meets the eye)....I probably worded it wrong, as I was addressing McGrath's post. I'm sorry if you took it wrong. Perhaps, McGrath should clarify what he was referring to, being as 'BS: Why are girls drawn to losers?' would lead one to believe that the topic would be addressing behavior, rather than....wait..I'll put up the part of McGrath's post I was responding to:....."I think evidence from episodes of partisan and guerilla war is that an ability to stay calm and collected and wait for the right moment is likely to be especially important in such situations. Being a stroppy arsehole who doesn't know how to do that gets yourself and others killed."
..and that part of the post just popped up out of (seemingly) nowhere.

GfS