From an intermittent visitor, who only posts when he has something which contributes, I think some of you post too much, causing threads to degenerate either into waffle or bile. When I see what actually happened in the Countess Richard funeral thread last year, I'm certain I don't want much to do with the folk world now, friends like that I don't need. Right or wrong, a real human being's passing deserved better than the arguments over what had happened rather than actually finding out. And it applies to both sides: has anyone actually done anything to ensure any other singleton folkies are checked up on, for instance? Nope. At least I can say I'm now working with one of the Councils involved to improve such questions.