Stilly River Sage (to pete)
I'm not letting you dictate the terms of the discussion

Apparently you think that's your job. You seem to have achieved the impossible by creating a measure of empathy between me and Steve Shaw, something only previously achieved by Jack the Sailor. I think you are creating problems for yourself by trying to take part in the discussion and police it at the same time. You are the one coming over as a bully.

P.S. It's TheSnail not Snail if you don't mind.