Dave, I actually said, "Homosexuals are defined by who they prefer to have sex with"....just as heterosexuals are so defined....just as paedophiles are so defined, or any other sexual grouping.

The definition has nothing to do with "love", I have loved several men, my dear grandfather and uncle (guardian) to mention two, but this love does not make me a homosexual, both of these gentlemen would have been sickened by such a suggestion.

Richard, I'm sure you know that in many cases, the law is an ass.
Did you agree with the law which criminalised homosexuality?