I have a wife and two kids. I'm 62 but love to see all the bikinis and the midriffs and the pert/squishy bums (at 62 one is not fussy) that summer brings to Bude. Mmmm, squishy bums... The missus finds this very amusing but I always riposte with the "use or or lose it" argument. I have several gay friends, some of whom are in relationships and some who are not. I have even more friends that are in live-together setups for who marriage is an irrelevance. I love 'em all. Come round to my house, Akenhateon, and tell me what "sexual grouping" I'm in. After I've metaphorically punched you on you metaphorically-bigoted nose, I'll ring up the Jehovah's Witnesses and ask them to come round for some light relief.