Why don't you apply the same logic to that man as you just have in defence of nuns starving children and disposing of their bodies in cesspits by saying you don't have all the facts? Or do you change your moral code thread to thread?

I'd be a bit less dismissive of mental health services if I were you. They may be able to help you with both your irrational fear of gay men and your fixation with anal sex. In any event, many on here have expressed disquiet with your not so private fantasy.