It seems to simply be the case that the ratio is against you

statistics for the US

Of course there ARE men out there, but obviously, single men who wish partners have a bit of an easier time of it. As the stats show, locality is relevant..... you don't say where you are.

You are doing the right things-- going places where you can enjoy life, whether you 'meet' someone or not.

I will say this... I have seen the awkwardness of social situations where it is obvious that certain women are there looking for a husband, and scaring away some of the possible ones who are being cautious. Have fun first... let things develop as they will.