They are out there. I am one. But, like a lot of "nice guys", a dozen times bitten, a dozen times shy. I have absolutely NO need to roll the dice again so I actually avoid encounters of the female kind. I prefer writing, music, comedy and sports TV and keeping to myself. It's horrible that I got messed over so bad that I didn't have any children but I often think, if my potential children grew up in the toxic environment I was subjected to when married (13 years, 4 months, 17 days, 11 1/2 hours), how would it have affected them? Maybe it was meant to be?

Of course, none of that has anything to do with your situation except to say... a 57 year old divorced man like me is NOT getting married again unless he falls in love and I know better than to let that bullshit happen again. I preclude such as stated above.

Good luck. Love is grand... for some but not all.