Bonnie, all I can say is, never say never. If that sounds too cloud-cuckoo land for you, I'm sorry, it's not meant to, but I've no wish to do details here of what has not too long ago happened to me; he never noticed my wedding ring though! So I rather rudely never answered his thoughtful little note.. This was in my last year at work, aged 60 and most definitely not looking!! Hoping something turns up for you. Really truly.
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