""I actually got angry when I recalled school assemblies and RE, being told God is love."" 

I propose that there is ample evidence that: For every "angry guy" obsessed with promoting anti-God, and attempting to seek recruits to feed this anger, there are millions of good, hapoy and kind religious folks who feel and practice goodess and exhibit the opposite of anger and disrespect towards others- and their personal life choices.

Why dwell on feeding an anger monkey an angry banana? (Aka, get over it and move on to more positive exploits). Just a suggestion, btw, to promote inner peace.:)