As I said, Midchuck/Peter, start your own thread and discuss away, as we've already done once. Any of us have a right to do so, but I believe we also have a right to have a thread where we feel we can safely discuss such things without ridicule, etc. as happened before.

The way you interpret "please be respectful" is up to you; if I read that by another 'Catter, I'd figure they deserved it just for asking.

Thanks to everyone who has posted their experiences.

kat