"I have lived a long time and have never heard any woman admit to enjoying this practice. "

You have lived in narrow circles... I will tell you (have mentioned this before) that I actually worked in an 'adult' bookstore for almost 3 years, and had access not only to literature, but to conversations with real people who requested various material. I learned much about many issues that are not commonly part of everyday discussions among acquaintances. I can assure you that many (as in MANY) people of both sexes do enjoy practices that would startle you.... I will not attempt to prove this, but I can also assure you that Google would settle the matter, should you care to explore.

wait... perhaps you'd rather not take chances looking up stuff like that? Fine... https://startpage.com/ or https://www.ixquick.com/ do not identify you.

It is best NOT to make wild assumptions, based on your own limited experience, about the varieties of human behavior!