"The only rule for me is no rules."

So you're in favour of chaos and anarchy are you, Bignige? All human societies and organisations rely on rules - both explicit and implicit - in order to function properly. If you don't believe me, just try driving down the motorway, at 90 mph, against the follow of the traffic ... err ... on second thoughts, don't try that! Rules are just one of those aspects of life that you just have to learn to live with.