well obviously no one agrees with me. i think a fondness for one country is enough to call yourself a patriot.
if you hate the sodding place and its people and traditions. tp the extent that you're not really bothered if they come to harm.

i guess you're unpatriotic.

where you would put someone like Kim Philby , who professed that he loved the country so much - he wanted it to be a communist state, and went on to betray his country - i don't know.