To be honest Guest, I do not know who you are - I was just having a bit of fun (or getting my own back) as a result of yet another needless nasty thread started by a nameless person and made use of what was said before. I could of course speculate as to your identity but there is no way that I would wish to unfairly cast doubt over anyone.

If you genuinely do have problems that spill over in this way I am sorry but I also wish that you could find other ways of coping with them although I certainly could not condemn you as I sometimes reach explosion point and behave in ways that I dislike myself for (more an over-reaction to something trivial when I blow).

I am not saying that this is the right approach for you but Mudcat does have a number of supportive people and it may be better to air the way you feel as you than go about releasing things the way you do.

Jon