And how do you know that everyone has "parental instincts" in the first place? The only dubious ideology on show here is yours. Many around here may put it far less kindly. And your homophobic ideology isn'tt at all dubious. It's completely beyond doubt, and you seem determined to give it yet another tedious airing.

Fourth hospital visit in a few days today and more to come. It's a marriage thang. No it isn't. It's a human being thing!