Nigel, I understand your privacy concerns for your family.

Wendy, your privacy settings prevented me from seeing your photos, and I understand that, too.

For several years I did not set privacy restrictions on my Facebook account. Then I went to Ireland for two weeks and wanted to prevent everyone except my friends from seeing posts that indicated I was away from home that long, so I tightened my settings. When I came home I kept them tight so only my friends could see photos of my grandchildren. And now, as they are reaching ages when they are less closely supervised by their parents, I have stopped sharing any photos of them!