I figure everyone is entitled to live their life in what ever makes them happy as long as they respect others. However, that is not what happens all too often. Like many other old catters I get sick of the bickering and usually wonder why I hang around. Maybe it is just a disire for the old days of friends like spaw or art thieme or kat.. But as spaw use to say everything changes and he too got fed up. Sad actually. There really is not much left. It can change for the better again but I am not sure who will be left