Joe you stated "My faith is a matter of the heart, just as my choice to love my wife is a matter of my heart. I can't defend my love for my wife, and I can't defend my faith - and it's an insult and an offense for someone to attack either my love or my faith. Such matters are not and should not be within the realm of attack and defense. The exception would be if I were to proselytize here or use my faith as a springboard for attacking somebody else, and I have never done that"

Yet you find it acceptable to attack and even question my love for my wife. Pot, kettle and black spring to mind. Oh and by the way I can defend my love for my wife, very easily in fact.