Chongx...sfter some minor research I have found some pictures from your past you might remember, and also a couple pictures of your sister and mother.

Chinga, Chonga (before the change), and Mom.

Chinga and Chonga, the twins.

Poor old Mom, betrayed by Chonga.

Chinga, forced into The Business to support herself and Mom.

Chongx, when s/he first arrived in the US under a load of bananas.

Chongx, post surgery and deaf to the pleas of Chinga and Mom.

Brings back memories, doesn't it?