To Llanfair,

Too bad you are not in California. We could meet. :-)) I never come across single guys that are into folk music, singing, etc. It would be nice to meet someone such as yourself to share common interests.

Seems like when I do attend folk venues, sing-arounds, all the guys there are married. Funny thing, there are some other single women or some with their friend (another female) but NO SINGLE GUYS!

There are some folk music places here where people go to someone's home and have informal singing. Usually just go around the circle (seats are set up in a circle) For those who don't sing they can request any song they like and ask if someone can sing "their request." Sometimes there is a "theme" song for the night too.
They are fun to go to and there is always good food and refreshments available during the break.

For example the theme song might be about travel. So if people know any folk songs related to "travel" they will sing that song.
The theme changes at each gathering.
P.S. I like to stay home with my two dogs a lot too. :-)) but would love to meet a nice guy to go to folk venues with and share this interest. Even just share listening to "our favourite folk music" at home.
I have tons of great folk albums. CD's and LPs.

I know what you mean about dating sites!