"Get a grip" right back to you, Steve. Whatever the motivations or context, or whoever the "both of you" you apostrophise, your

"right-wing king-and-country bias, we often find we can't believe a word you say"

will bear no interpretation other than that which I put on it, of dishonesty implicit in any "king-&-country" postulation. Can't see how you can deny it.

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