Ake, you're just not using logic here. A transgender male believes that he is a male, and does his best to act and live like a male - including using the men's bathroom. If you are going to stop him at the bathroom door and challenge his sexual identity, that is grossly offensive and likely to cause him great embarrassment. And yes, that certainly is preventing him from "believing what he wishes." Your position is downright cruel.

Do you know any transgender people? I guess you don't. If you did, you certainly wouldn't talk like that. You should be ashamed of yourself.

-Joe Offer-