Dan, you are a lovely guy, the goodness shines out of you, but in constructing a viable society everyone cannot get everything they want. "Society" is a control mechanism and a serious and valuable one.
Just imagine what sort of world we would inhabit if everyone was given the right and the means to do exactly as they please regardless of the effect on other members.

There are many huge decisions to be made concerning the future of society, regarding how much medical treatment we can actually afford, not what is actually available. What is to be done about the ever increasing number of old people who have to be kept alive regardless of their quality of life. How our population is to be given some purpose as technology takes over.......Dozens of important problems which require serious thought, not just love to solve.

Of course I am sorry for those who for whatever reason are forced to function on the fringes of society, but in the real world big decisions need to be made and a workably society created. Destruction of the template which has served us well for many years is insanity.

Eliza, I know you and I disagree strongly on this issue please don't be so bloody patronising.