Don't be ridiculous akenaton. Unhealthy? Are you ever going to make an effort to overcome this misguided viewpoint? Our dear gay friends have been together for years, they're getting married soon. They're just two comfy middle-aged men who love eachother. They had other boyfriends when younger, before they met, as would anyone of any sexuality. Their health has never been 'endangered by their lifestyle'. You really are daft mate!