Part of the answer is answering, "How big/important is music in your life?" I spend hours (if I can) everyday playing/learning songs and tunes. It is a large part of who I am. I once dumped a nice gal who just couldn't stand folk music. I couldn't play it in the car, at home, anywhere near her and I got so frustrated I threw in the towel. I do and live with other interesting activities but it came down to her OR the music - ADIOS! Gopherit