I have often thought that immortality would be a curse. With all the time in the world, what motivation would there be to get anything done?

Sorcha, my son screwed up, not big time but enough for me to reimpose a ban on home visits. It hurts me more than him but it has to be done. Take care of your daughter. If your son is not SERIOUSLY hurt, let him take care of himself. Don't even offer sympathy. Love your husband. You are lucky to have him.

Nynia will survive. Put him at the bottom of the list of "Things To Do Today".It's just a misunderstanding.