"What they ARE saying in effect is that we must drop the little-Englander Tory hubris and negotiate sensibly about what we need to pay on exit."
In the real world you pay a fee for membership to join a club. Not paying the fee means loss of membership. Same with the EU.
For Shaw. This is the same as the AA. Pay a fee annually for cover - don't pay and on yer bike matey!
The EU has a novel concept that will gain few acolytes. You pay a fee to leave a dysfunctional club.